Sunday, December 19, 2010

It should be worth it.

     I saw Break Ke Baad a few weeks earlier. Its a cool movie but i didn't like it much. It was just that the ending was not worth it. I mean i get that the guy promised her that he'll not let them break apart but he should not have accepted her that easily. When at the end she finds out that he is going to get married she realizes that she loves him and goes and say sorry and they live "happily ever after". I mean c'mmon thats not fair! In real life scenario if a guy would do that the girl would take the guy's love for granted. I personally think that she should have fought for his love. 
     Sometimes it gets me thinking that the end of a journey should be really worth it. I have heard and read a lot that its all about the journey. Also that we should concentrate more on the journey rather than destination but i have gone pass it. I mean at the end we are going to reach the destination, aren't we? My point is that the destination should be worth the journey. There are a lot of romantic movies where the couple go through so much pain and all, but the love story ends in such an arbit manner that u are not even able to absorb it before it ends. In a romantic movie all i want to watch is the problem that the couples are facing and how they  fight their way through life. Sweet romantic gestures, loads of kisses, old traditions, romantic rituals...... thats what makes a movie romantic, right?
      My point is that whatever you do, whatever you achieve the end should always be worth the effort made to achieve it.  At the end if the ending is not worth the journey than the whole journey seems to be useless.

Monday, August 30, 2010

Genuineness

        The world is getting fake. Everything is getting its fake version. Not only things, even people try to fake what they really are so as they are liked by others. They fake smiles, praise, compliments & their character. The frustation starts when you start noticing this everywhere-like facebook. It really gets me crazy when a non sense status or link gets likes & comments and mind you this is not just because no one likes my status. I mean come on REALLY. People like anything so as to be noticeable to others so that people dont forget who they are. It may be this that has gotten me to like genuineness so much. My heart really starts tickling when i see genuine behaviour around me. There's nothing like a genuine smile on your friend's face when he is really happy for you. When i do something all that matters is true, genuine opinions not fake ones. It really feels embarrasing when your facebook status gets like & comments when you know that its not THAT good. Also, half the problems in life are because you thought something was real unless you found that it was fake and your life went down. The problem with believing in fake things is that after some time you start believing that it is true.
                 Some people have genuineness in them. There's a friend of mine who has got this genuine laughter. I feel so good when i crack some joke and he laughs at it. It feels like my sense of humour has suddenly increased multiple times. One of the many things i hate about fakeness is the fake behaviour of girls. How easy is it for them to just smile, laugh wid boys just to have their work done. I would'nt disagree that it feels good even after knowing that its fake. The point is that it would feel a lot better once you are convinced that its genuine. Sometimes i ask myself that if i remove the fake things in my life, would i still like my life? I think the question is, How much genuine is your life? The more genuine your life is, the more you are living it. Coz life is genuine and fake is temporary.